If you have been following my blog posts, you may remember that I had an ordeal several years ago with my ex-husband's crazy girlfriend.
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His crazy girlfriend is once of the most evil people I have ever encountered in my entire life. I couldn't wait to leave that small town so I would never have to run into her again.
I always felt that something was going to happen. Her level of crazy isn't something to take lightly.
My ex ended up marrying her.
MARRYING her!
He turned a blind eye to the little things. Things that outsiders see more clearly. I always was watching because my daughter's safety comes first and foremost.
I don't even know how to write everything out because as I stated, I am still processing it all.
The past few weeks, my daughter had been having issues with her anxiety and depression. As a parent, it is hard to try to help as I am not a professional. I called her dad many times so that we could figure out what to do as parents. On Monday is all came to a head and on Tuesday, she got help and things seemed to be turning around.
Thursday morning I get a phone call from my ex looking for our daughter. I went into instant panic because he never ever calls me. He assured me that he just wanted to talk to her and that everything was fine. I checked her GPS and told him that she is at her dorm and is probably sleeping.
Early afternoon I call a call from my daughter, there was panic in her voice and she said that her dad got the shit beat out of him. I told her to hold on and went somewhere private to take the call.
She said that her dad's wife beat him with her cane (she had back surgery) and that he was hurt bad and that the house was trashed. She didn't know what to do. I asked if the cops were called and she said that he was at the police station with his brother and they were filing a report.
She said that the wife flew into a rage after learning that my ex sold our daughter's snowmobile and that he was giving the money to our daughter so she could use it for college.
I am still in disbelief.
She beat him, bit him, destroyed several things and then beat their dog with a hand held shower thing until the dog was nearly dead.
Who does that?
I asked my daughter if there was anything I could do. She wanted to go see her dad but I told her to hold off until the police handle everything. I explained that the wife would be arrested and not to go anywhere near there until she was gone since my daughter seemed to be the source of her rage.
An hour later I called my daughter to see what was happening. I asked if she was ok and she said that surprisingly, she was in a good mood. I asked if I should come for the weekend and she said that she wanted me there. I booked a hotel and made plans to day Friday off of work.
We kept in touch, a while later she called from her dad's and couldn't believe the amount of destruction. Seeing the dog's blood everywhere was upsetting as well as seeing her dad with a black eye. The wife also bit my ex. She and her uncle were taking her dad to get looked at and to document the violence.
My daughter also said that she was going to be with her dad through out the weekend and that I should hold off on coming down.
I was amazed at the strength my daughter had at that moment. After all that she had been suffering herself, she pulled it together.
There was once moment when she called me when she was so sick to her stomach. I said that it was a normal reaction to seeing something so traumatic.
We have had several conversations and more details came out. I also became sick.
How can a human do something so horrible to another human?
I asked to talk to my ex. I wanted to know if this happened before he called me that morning. He said it did and that's why he was looking for our daughter. I asked why he didn't tell me and he said he didn't want to upset me. I explained that even though we haven't been married in over 14 years, I still cared. He is still the father of my child. Our child loves him dearly and it would crush her if anything happens to him. He started crying.
He said that she had killed their other dog because the dog listened to him and not her. He told our daughter that the dog was hit by a car.
Its just sickening.
I knew something bad was going to happen. I always picked up on the little indicators. My ex had my in his contacts as "Craig" so she wouldn't get angry when I called. He would always let me go to voice mail and call me back when he could talk in private. He didn't want our daughter to stay at his house as it upset his wife. There is just so many red flags I cannot even explain them all.
When I asked about why he didn't do something before it escalated to this he said that she was never this bad. I said she was always this bad. She was such an evil person from the beginning but he chose not to see it.
I never said "told you so" but I sure the hell thought it.
I feel for my daughter for having this happen to someone that she loves so much. I wish I could take the pain from her. I can only be a support for her and help her through this ordeal.
I pray that if that woman gets out of jail that she stays away from my kid otherwise she will have to deal with my wrath.
I know several people who have heard what happened ask about the dog. He's now fine. He has a broken jaw. From what I suspect, I believe that he was protecting my ex and took the hardest of blows. The dog didn't need surgery and seems to be in good spirits.
